I’m sick. It’s just a chest and head cold, but it’s kept me cooped up in bed for a few days now. I don’t like the feeling of digressing from my daily routine by staying at home as my new found education has taught me that isolating is relapse behaviour. But am I truly isolating? Or quarantining myself for the good of the public? I find myself juggling whether or not to rest my physical self, or to try and battle the elements (and pray I won’t cough till I vomit when the cold hits my lungs) and focus on my mental self. I constantly go back and forth between thinking, “well I personally wouldn’t want anyone hacking up a lung in the yoga studio”, to “well maybe if I just push myself half as hard I will be ok”, and then “but yoga etiquette says I’m not suppose to leave the studio until the class is finished and coughing for 90 minutes is horribly rude”, right back to “well going means I’m definitely still on my recovery pathway because I’m out of the house”. UGH…that’s literally how my mind works. But when I give myself a break and really think about it, even being mindful of making sure I stay on my recovery pathway is more than I ever did before.
Being that I’m a mindfulness rookie, deciphering between what is being mindful and simply being too judgemental of myself is tough. In save my life grad school we have learned that we should avoid extreme judgements, because we often base them on only an observation or two. Furthermore, if we’re in emotional mind when we are making these judgements, our perceptions are often distorted by the emotional crap we are rolling in. Making incorrect judgements is part of being human, I get that. But when mentally sick and physically sick get rolled into one (like today), and making the right judgement/recovery choices daily can be a matter of life or death, decisions regarding my health in general can get a little overwhelming.
At the end of the day I do think I’m balancing things quite well. I’m keeping my germs away from the public (you’re welcome!), but I’m very mindful to make sure that sitting in my room for most of the day doesn’t put me into a downward spiral. I need to give myself a little slack sometimes and remember ‘easy does it’. I suppose I am taking this as a learning opportunity which is good. And over time, the decisions that seem so big to me now, (go to yoga, or not go to yoga) will become easier, more natural and rather automatic. I’ve learned in school that it takes a lot of dedication and practice to change our old habits, but, the end result is well worth our effort.
February 16, 2015 at 6:36 PM
I hear you on the “stay away from other’s when you’re sick”. Thank you. I had empyema this past June and apparently that makes me very much more susceptible to resp. infections.
There is a difference between “falling off the wagon” and “needing” to stay clear. If you broke your foot or some other more obvious injury, people would stay clear. (Cept me, I’d probably try and trip ya lol I’m evil that way).
Dwell not and let your body heal with an easy conscience, lady. You deserve it.
February 16, 2015 at 7:35 PM
Thank you 🙂
February 16, 2015 at 9:07 PM
Nat.. just wanted to say i am very proud of you and i wish you nothing but the best on this new journey ahead of you. if you need anything you know i am always here and not far.. Ryan Henderson
February 16, 2015 at 10:30 PM
Hey Ryan 🙂 It’s been a while! Well I guess you were right… I had too much on my plate all those years and it caught up to me. I’m taking it one day at a time now. 🙂 I thought of you not long ago and wondered what you would say to me now. Thank you for your support as always!